Saturday, October 22, 2011
Soul 2 Soul ~Create your Relationship: Making good choices when it comes to Men/Women.
Soul 2 Soul ~Create your Relationship: Making good choices when it comes to Men/Women.: Men, have you ever seen a women with a man that you knew was not the greatest match for her? Women who were hurt in a previous relationship...
Making good choices when it comes to Men/Women.
Have you ever seen a women/man with a someone you knew was not the greatest match for him/her?
Women/Men who were hurt in a previous relationship usually chose people they can control. Some do this to protect themselves from getting hurt again instead of questioning their choices in men Altogether.The mate they choose are a direct link to the pain they endured in the past and deep issues they have with themeselves. Unfortunately, It may take several relationships before a person can understand that she/he will keep attracting their pain over and over again until they heal themselves from the fear of being hurt that way again.
What does that mean for you? Well you too have choices that you are responsible for. If you see a person in this transition where:
talks about the person who hurt them most of the time your together
controlling in several areas of your relationship.
wants you to do what they wont do.
not interested in your dreams or goals but wants you to be interested in theirs
Chances are they're still carrying some baggage and it's either your willing to go along on a very bumpy ride or you except that there's nothing you can do to help them if they can't see their own pain manifesting through their relationships.
Bottom line we all have a responsibility in relationships, and if you allow someone else to give you examples of how they don't care about you then you can't care about yourself.
If we don't make better choices we repeat our mistakes over and over again.
Bless
Women/Men who were hurt in a previous relationship usually chose people they can control. Some do this to protect themselves from getting hurt again instead of questioning their choices in men Altogether.The mate they choose are a direct link to the pain they endured in the past and deep issues they have with themeselves. Unfortunately, It may take several relationships before a person can understand that she/he will keep attracting their pain over and over again until they heal themselves from the fear of being hurt that way again.
What does that mean for you? Well you too have choices that you are responsible for. If you see a person in this transition where:
talks about the person who hurt them most of the time your together
controlling in several areas of your relationship.
wants you to do what they wont do.
not interested in your dreams or goals but wants you to be interested in theirs
Chances are they're still carrying some baggage and it's either your willing to go along on a very bumpy ride or you except that there's nothing you can do to help them if they can't see their own pain manifesting through their relationships.
Bottom line we all have a responsibility in relationships, and if you allow someone else to give you examples of how they don't care about you then you can't care about yourself.
If we don't make better choices we repeat our mistakes over and over again.
Bless
Friday, September 2, 2011
I lost my job
Peace and blessings,
With the job loss percentage at it's all time high, people are feeling a sense of panic, despair and anxiety and this spirals into depression which leaves people feeling inadequate and hopeless. I'm sure that these thoughts lead to other thoughts that are very similar to what your feeling already, thus creating a personal hell for you. So lets sit down and have a cup of tea or coffee together while asking some important questions, as far as the sugar of love...how many lumps would you prefer 1 or 2? ;)
You: I lost my Job.
Question I ask: Is this true?
(hold on to that answer you will need it later)
2nd question I ask: Can you absolutely KNOW that this is true?
(sit with that for a minute and reason with it)
3rd Question I ask is:How do you react or what happens when you believe this thought? depression, anxiety etc.
(be honest)
a)what emotions happen when you believe this thought?
b)does this thought bring peace or stress into your life?
c)what images do you see past and future when you believe that thought? homelessness, not being able to feed your family or yourself, bills getting out of hand etc..*think of as many as you can
d)what addictions/obsessions begin to manifest when you believe this thought? bad eating habits, alcohol, smoking, biting your fingernails etc..be honest with yourself.
e)Describe the physical sensations that happen when you believe this thought.
f)How do you treat others (include family and friends) when you believe this thought?
g)How do you treat yourself when you believe this thought?
4th Question to you is: Who would you be without that thought?
Turn it around:
(I lost my Job)
1. The job lost me
2. I stopped doing my job
3 The jobs didn't lose me
b) the job helped me
At this moment you may have felt a couple of heart tuggs..which is supposed to happen to help you open up..breath with it by taking 5 deep breaths...and love yourself because you are now open to doing so
Love and light.
With the job loss percentage at it's all time high, people are feeling a sense of panic, despair and anxiety and this spirals into depression which leaves people feeling inadequate and hopeless. I'm sure that these thoughts lead to other thoughts that are very similar to what your feeling already, thus creating a personal hell for you. So lets sit down and have a cup of tea or coffee together while asking some important questions, as far as the sugar of love...how many lumps would you prefer 1 or 2? ;)
You: I lost my Job.
Question I ask: Is this true?
(hold on to that answer you will need it later)
2nd question I ask: Can you absolutely KNOW that this is true?
(sit with that for a minute and reason with it)
3rd Question I ask is:How do you react or what happens when you believe this thought? depression, anxiety etc.
(be honest)
a)what emotions happen when you believe this thought?
b)does this thought bring peace or stress into your life?
c)what images do you see past and future when you believe that thought? homelessness, not being able to feed your family or yourself, bills getting out of hand etc..*think of as many as you can
d)what addictions/obsessions begin to manifest when you believe this thought? bad eating habits, alcohol, smoking, biting your fingernails etc..be honest with yourself.
e)Describe the physical sensations that happen when you believe this thought.
f)How do you treat others (include family and friends) when you believe this thought?
g)How do you treat yourself when you believe this thought?
4th Question to you is: Who would you be without that thought?
Turn it around:
(I lost my Job)
1. The job lost me
2. I stopped doing my job
3 The jobs didn't lose me
b) the job helped me
At this moment you may have felt a couple of heart tuggs..which is supposed to happen to help you open up..breath with it by taking 5 deep breaths...and love yourself because you are now open to doing so
Love and light.
Thursday, September 1, 2011
My Husband/boyfriend/lover does not communicate with me... ;(
Love and Light,
Do you find your relationship with your significant other HARD? Are they not giving you what you need to be Happy?
Well this is a blog dedicated to the loving and nurturing women.
and this blog is to guide you to happy relationships if you want them ;)
if not...let's move forward.... :)
We are who we attract...women are Creatresses! and until we take responsibility for that..we will never be happy with ourselves or the person we're with..it's just what it is
so come on in and have a sit down and lets smile and grin and bear it..i'll serve you an extra teaspoon of love with your tea..or coffee..which ever you like the best..After all this is your House..after tea we can decorate it the way you like ;)
Love and light
Woman,
Malikah
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