Saturday, October 22, 2011
Soul 2 Soul ~Create your Relationship: Making good choices when it comes to Men/Women.
Soul 2 Soul ~Create your Relationship: Making good choices when it comes to Men/Women.: Men, have you ever seen a women with a man that you knew was not the greatest match for her? Women who were hurt in a previous relationship...
Making good choices when it comes to Men/Women.
Have you ever seen a women/man with a someone you knew was not the greatest match for him/her?
Women/Men who were hurt in a previous relationship usually chose people they can control. Some do this to protect themselves from getting hurt again instead of questioning their choices in men Altogether.The mate they choose are a direct link to the pain they endured in the past and deep issues they have with themeselves. Unfortunately, It may take several relationships before a person can understand that she/he will keep attracting their pain over and over again until they heal themselves from the fear of being hurt that way again.
What does that mean for you? Well you too have choices that you are responsible for. If you see a person in this transition where:
talks about the person who hurt them most of the time your together
controlling in several areas of your relationship.
wants you to do what they wont do.
not interested in your dreams or goals but wants you to be interested in theirs
Chances are they're still carrying some baggage and it's either your willing to go along on a very bumpy ride or you except that there's nothing you can do to help them if they can't see their own pain manifesting through their relationships.
Bottom line we all have a responsibility in relationships, and if you allow someone else to give you examples of how they don't care about you then you can't care about yourself.
If we don't make better choices we repeat our mistakes over and over again.
Bless
Women/Men who were hurt in a previous relationship usually chose people they can control. Some do this to protect themselves from getting hurt again instead of questioning their choices in men Altogether.The mate they choose are a direct link to the pain they endured in the past and deep issues they have with themeselves. Unfortunately, It may take several relationships before a person can understand that she/he will keep attracting their pain over and over again until they heal themselves from the fear of being hurt that way again.
What does that mean for you? Well you too have choices that you are responsible for. If you see a person in this transition where:
talks about the person who hurt them most of the time your together
controlling in several areas of your relationship.
wants you to do what they wont do.
not interested in your dreams or goals but wants you to be interested in theirs
Chances are they're still carrying some baggage and it's either your willing to go along on a very bumpy ride or you except that there's nothing you can do to help them if they can't see their own pain manifesting through their relationships.
Bottom line we all have a responsibility in relationships, and if you allow someone else to give you examples of how they don't care about you then you can't care about yourself.
If we don't make better choices we repeat our mistakes over and over again.
Bless
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